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Before She Walks- Audio Book Pre Sale

A$17.95

She didn’t just wake up and decide to leave. Most relationships don’t end with fireworks… they fade out in silence. The warning signs were there, you just didn’t see them.

Before She Walks is not another man-bashing self-help book. It’s a no-nonsense roadmap for blokes who want to understand where relationships go wrong and how to fix it before it’s too late.

From the invisible household load to the quiet quit, from the provider instinct to the loss of desire, this book tackles the real reasons couples break down. With raw honesty, bloke-friendly language, and practical tools you can use immediately, it shows you how to step up as a partner without losing yourself in the process.

This isn’t theory. It’s the stuff you’ll wish you knew five years ago - the conversations, the blind spots, and the small shifts that make the biggest difference. Read it, act on it, and you won’t just keep her but you might even build something better than you had before.
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This is a pre-sale access purchase. The audio book will be available by October 15th 2025. Please be aware if you don’t have a designated audio book player you will need to save and manually play each chapter. We do not offer refunds as per our website T&C’s.

She didn’t just wake up and decide to leave. Most relationships don’t end with fireworks… they fade out in silence. The warning signs were there, you just didn’t see them.

Before She Walks is not another man-bashing self-help book. It’s a no-nonsense roadmap for blokes who want to understand where relationships go wrong and how to fix it before it’s too late.

From the invisible household load to the quiet quit, from the provider instinct to the loss of desire, this book tackles the real reasons couples break down. With raw honesty, bloke-friendly language, and practical tools you can use immediately, it shows you how to step up as a partner without losing yourself in the process.

This isn’t theory. It’s the stuff you’ll wish you knew five years ago - the conversations, the blind spots, and the small shifts that make the biggest difference. Read it, act on it, and you won’t just keep her but you might even build something better than you had before.
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This is a pre-sale access purchase. The audio book will be available by October 15th 2025. Please be aware if you don’t have a designated audio book player you will need to save and manually play each chapter. We do not offer refunds as per our website T&C’s.

Before She Walks is a straight-talking relationship guide for men who want to understand why relationships fail, and how to stop it before it’s too late. Blending raw honesty, real-world insight, and practical tools, it cuts through the noise of blame and finger-pointing to give blokes a clear roadmap for spotting the warning signs, stepping up as a partner, and building something stronger that lasts.

Author’s Note

I’m not here to hand you therapy in a paperback. I’m not a psychologist, counsellor, or “relationship expert.” I’m a woman who’s spent over two decades sitting across from blokes, in boardrooms, cafés, pubs, and on job sites, hearing the same stories on repeat. I’ve been the accidental counsellor for mates, clients, and colleagues, helping them unpack the mess before it blew up or after it already had.

My day job is teaching foresight and broadscanning in business, spotting patterns, predicting problems before they hit, and finding practical solutions that actually stick and holding clients accountable to their decisions. Turns out, those same skills work bloody well when applied to relationships. Combine that with a lifetime of Stoic Thinking and a strong belief in personal responsibility (we are our choices), and you get my style: collaborative but direct, no sugar-coating, no tiptoeing.

I’ve been selectively single for decades. That’s not a failing, it’s a conscious choice. It’s given me the luxury of observing, listening, and learning without being blinded by my own relationship drama. The insights in this book aren’t academic theories. They’re the distillation of real conversations, real mistakes, and real wins from men who’ve had the guts to ask, “What am I missing here?”

Read this with an open mind. You might not agree with everything, that’s fine and it’s also kinda the point. But if something makes you stop, think, and maybe do one thing differently, then it’s done its job. You’ve got nothing to lose except the same old patterns that keep wrecking good things; and maybe, just maybe, a lot to gain.